Love is a phenomenon sometimes difficult
to explain in words. Broken hearts, a phenomenon difficult to live with. What
does it mean to be broken hearted? Is our heart actually broken? If it is can
it get fixed? What causes ones heart to break? When you're so in love with
someone and you've given them all of you and suddenly with out any real reason they're gone! Or in some instances certain circumstances don't permitt the two of you to be together. Some go through this stage of heartbreak/ heartache. This feeling
is so strong that it can even cause a physical reaction to your body. Loss of
sleep, loss of appetite, to big of an appetite, body pains, no will power to go on and the list can go on and on. When
this person who you thought was your other half is gone for what ever reason some say you may feel zombie-like, empty. You'll question everything.
Is a temporary heart
condition brought on by stressful situations, such as the death of a loved one.
People with broken heart syndrome may have sudden chest pain or think they're
having a heart attack. These broken heart syndrome symptoms may be brought on
by the heart's reaction to a surge of stress hormones. In broken heart
syndrome, a part of your heart temporarily enlarges and doesn't pump well,
while the remainder of the heart functions normally or with even more forceful
contractions.
If
you are suffering from this condition I have some good news for you! When you
enter a dark tunnel guess what? There is always a way OUT. You may walk alone
in the dark for some time but its not forever. Some who go through a traumatic experience in a relationship build walls to keep love out. Building a
wall is the easiest thing you could do. You just lay down cement and stack up
the blocks. The hard part is breaking it down. Its 100 percent doable! But when the RIGHT person
comes along he/she will take the hammer and tear it down and you'll let
them.
I
once heard that, "relationships are like thunderstorms, as easy as them come they
go". I disagree! In the right relationship you’re in the thunderstorm together
holding one umbrella until it’s over and the sun is shining. If your
significant other left you or treated you terribly when the storm was over then they didn't deserve to
have you in the 1st place.
Healing:
Healing takes time, it involves probably a lot of crying and surrounding yourself with people who love and care for you. Go on vacation if possible and do all of the things you love doing. You have the ability to create your own happiness. Wake up in the morning and say today I'm going to be happy and you will be. The mind is one of the most powerful organs we poses, feed it positivity and poof your life will change for the better!
Living
with a broken heart is impossible so be willing to let someone come in and help you patch it back up. No, your heart might not look exactly the same with
all those stitches but our scars make us who we are, beautiful.
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