Social media certainly makes meeting potential significant others rather easy. It also makes looking like a stalker easy as well. When trying to pursue someone leaving comments on everything they post, to try and get their attention is not the way to go. especially if they aren't acknowledging your comments/presence. If a person had an interest in you then they would respond to the direct communication your trying to make. Following them on every social site doesn't make them like you more, it's sort of creepy. So when you have an interest in someone please refrain from stalker-ish tendencies. Here are a couple of things you DON'T DO when trying to get "noticed"
- Show up in places you know their going to be
- try too hard (no one like an eager beaver)
- compliment them every 5 seconds (compliments are always nice but not in excess)
- Looking to available ( being at someones every beck and call wont help your cause, it will only get you taken advantage of)
This is just a short list of a few things you Don't do! In addition if you feel like you have to work on getting someones attention then just quit while your ahead. If someone is genuinely interested in you then getting their attention is no work at all because you'll already have it!
xoxo Rockie
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