Broken Heart Syndrome

Love is a phenomenon sometimes difficult to explain in words. Broken hearts, a phenomenon difficult to live with. What does it mean to be broken hearted? Is our heart actually broken? If it is can it get fixed? What causes ones heart to break? When you're so in love with someone and you've given them all of you and suddenly with out any real reason they're gone! Or in some instances certain circumstances don't permitt the two of you to be together. Some go through this stage of heartbreak/ heartache. This feeling is so strong that it can even cause a physical reaction to your body. Loss of sleep, loss of appetite, to big of an appetite, body pains, no will power to go on and the list can go on and on. When this person who you thought was your other half is gone for what ever reason some say you may feel  zombie-like, empty. You'll question everything.

Broken heart syndrome:

 Is a temporary heart condition brought on by stressful situations, such as the death of a loved one. People with broken heart syndrome may have sudden chest pain or think they're having a heart attack. These broken heart syndrome symptoms may be brought on by the heart's reaction to a surge of stress hormones. In broken heart syndrome, a part of your heart temporarily enlarges and doesn't pump well, while the remainder of the heart functions normally or with even more forceful contractions.

If you are suffering from this condition I have some good news for you! When you enter a dark tunnel guess what? There is always a way OUT. You may walk alone in the dark for some time but its not forever. Some who  go through a traumatic experience in a relationship build walls to keep love out. Building a wall is the easiest thing you could do. You just lay down cement and stack up the blocks. The hard part is breaking it down. Its 100 percent doable! But when the RIGHT person comes along he/she will take the hammer and tear it down and you'll let them. 

I once heard that, "relationships are like thunderstorms, as easy as them come they go". I disagree! In the right relationship you’re in the thunderstorm together holding one umbrella until it’s over and the sun is shining. If your significant other left you or treated you terribly when the storm was over then they didn't deserve to have you in the 1st place.

Healing:

Healing takes time, it involves probably a lot of crying and surrounding yourself with people who love and care for you. Go on vacation if possible and do all of the things you love doing. You have the ability to create your own happiness. Wake up in the morning and say today I'm going to be happy and you will be. The mind is one of the most powerful organs we poses, feed it positivity and poof your life will change for the better!

Living with a broken heart is impossible so be willing to let someone come in and help you patch it back up. No, your heart might not look exactly the same with all those stitches but our scars make us who we are, beautiful.

To Sext Or Not To Sext? That Is The Question.

The days when a person would write a love letter sprayed with their perfume and sealed with a lipstick kiss are long gone. Today's technological generation prefers risky pictures; all the goods right upfront! But, are X-rated photos the way to  go? Are there safe ways to send a nude shot without fear of someone other than the person you sent it to seeing it?

WARNING: You do realize that a picture is in most cases FOREVER. So... should you choose to send someone a risky picture they might just keep that forever.

Here's tip number one: DON'T TEXT, EMAIL or MAIL NAKED PICTURES,

BUT if you must, be smart about it!

•  If you have the slightest doubt about the person you're sending an x-rated photo to, then you shouldn't be sending them anything in the first place.
• There are certain apps for smart phones where you can send a person a picture but they only have access to it for 5 seconds then it erases. One popular app is called "SnapChat. But even that isn't 100 percent secure. 

Some more tips:

Why send a full on nude picture? keep it mysterious, classy and leave something to the imagination folks. You can send sexy pictures to your significant other without bearing it all. Send some nice legs shots, a shoulder; are you following? you can make someones blood boil without putting all the goodies on the counter, get my drift?

So, to answer the question whether one should sext or not here it is;

If you're going to sext aim for someone who's trustworthy. Sending these kind of x-rated photos should (ideally) go to a wife or a husband. If you think about it, do you really want  a boyfriend/girlfriend you've broken up with to have such compromising pictures? And what if it was a nasty break up? They can do what ever they want with those pictures.

So if you do sext be smart about it!

Happy snapping guys

xoxo Rockie